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News Archive: May 2009

Prop. 8 opponents take their case to Fresno Sunday, 05/31/09
SF Gate

Those who marched say any road to a possible November 2010 ballot referendum legalizing same-sex couples must go through California's conservative Bible Belt. They kicked off the drive with 3,000 people attending Saturday's march in the belt's geographic center, aiming to sway those who supported Proposition 8 by sharing personal stories, one on one, with friends and neighbors, just as Milk would have advised.

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Another equal marriage battle next year may be too soon Sunday, 05/31/09
Mercury News

"The turn in 2010 is going to be markedly negative for them," said Frank Schubert, the Sacramento political consultant who ran the Yes on 8 campaign last year, and who would head a 2010 campaign to uphold Proposition 8.

Schubert predicts at least a third of the 2008 electorate, particularly those young, first-time voters who turned out to vote for Barack Obama, won't show up at the polls in 2010. "They are not going to show up to vote for Gavin Newsom or Jerry Brown," he said of two potential Democratic gubernatorial nominees for 2010.

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Nevada Senate backs partnership bill over gov Sunday, 05/31/09
AP

The 14-7 Senate vote Saturday -- the required two-thirds majority with no votes to spare -- must be affirmed by the Assembly to enact the measure into law over the governor's objections.

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Personal touch will change minds on marriage Sunday, 05/31/09
SF Gate

For many families, that will be the progression - from outright disapproval, to accepting the idea of civil unions, to supporting same-sex couples. But the important point is, for all the expensive television ads that were rolled out for and against Proposition 8, it is the personal touch that really changes minds.

The opponents of Prop. 8 learned that lesson. That's why they're rallying in Fresno today as part of the first high-profile effort to get voters to undo the ban on gay and lesbian couples. The thought is that if conservative voters met the same-sex couples and their families, they would be less likely to fight against their push to be married.

That's exactly what this civil rights battle needs.

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Thousands rally in California's heartland in support of gay marriage Sunday, 05/31/09
LA Times

Aiming to reach out to conservative voters, about 3,000 equal-rights supporters gathered Saturday in California's Central Valley in a renewed campaign to win support for equal marriage.

Just days after the California Supreme Court upheld a voter-approved ban on same-sex couples, activists launched a 14 1/2 -mile march from the town of Selma to Fresno, where they rallied in front of City Hall as a peaceful campaign-styled event to win back marriage rights.

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Win by Telling our Stories Saturday, 05/30/09
Newsweek

The future belongs to the freedom to marry.

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Hundreds march for equal marriage in central Calif. Saturday, 05/30/09
SF Gate

"Fresno represents middle America values, and we can start changing our neighbors' feelings about equal marriage beginning right here in the Central Valley," said lead organizer Robin McGehee, a 36-year-old college professor who married her longtime partner last year. "We're doing exactly what the freedom riders would do in the South in the 1960s, which is reaching into communities that are different from us so we can all live in equality."

Gay activists believe their campaign against Proposition 8 focused too much on liberal urban enclaves along the coast, failing even to reach out to the state's rural regions. The measure passed with nearly 69 percent of the vote in Fresno County, compared to 52 percent statewide.

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Poll: Majority of RI voters favor equal marriage law Saturday, 05/30/09
AP

A survey released Wednesday shows that more than half of Rhode Island voters favor a law allowing equal marriage, leading advocates to point out to state leadership that it's what residents want.

A Brown University poll showed 60 percent of registered voters in the state said they would support a law allowing gay couples to marry, and 75 percent said they would support a law allowing civil unions. Thirty-one percent said they would oppose an equal marriage law.

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Equal rights bills remain stalled in Congress Saturday, 05/30/09
Washington Blade

U.S. House and Senate lawmakers apparently hold conflicting views on the best way to pass hate crimes legislation.

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Supporters of Same-Sex Couples Trumpet the Church's Work Against Them Saturday, 05/30/09
Washington Post

With the battle moving east, some advocates are shouting that fact in the streets, calculating that on an issue that eventually comes down to comfort levels, more people harbor apprehensions about Mormons than about homosexuality.

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Nevada's Gov. Believes in Traditional Marriage. Why Is His Wife Accusing Him of 2 Affairs? Saturday, 05/30/09
Queerty

Jim says Dawn engaged in "aggressive behavior," whatever that means. But Dawn says Jim had not one, but two affairs with women named Kathy Karrasch and Leslie Durant. Wait: Isn't this the guy who believes in upholding the sanctity of segregated marriage?

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Iowa Legislative Leaders Vow No Action on Gay Marriage Saturday, 05/30/09
Iowa Independent

Same-sex couples will not be an issue in next year's legislative session, said the highest-ranking Democrats from both chambers of the Iowa legislature.

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IA: Equal Marriage Interest High In First Month Saturday, 05/30/09
KCCI

In the first month since same-sex couples have been legal in Iowa, local county recorders and marriage planners said they've been very busy.

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Gay couples a minefield for candidates for California governor Saturday, 05/30/09
LA Times

In that environment, candidates for governor are juggling wildly different needs for the primaries and the general election.

To score points with partisan voters in the June 2010 primary -- regardless of party -- is to risk harm in the broader arena of the general election.

So Newsom or any other Democrat who gets too bold about same-sex couples in the primary could face a backlash if running as party nominee come November, said Republican strategist Frank Schubert.

"In the general election, it's a huge problem, because it identifies you so closely with a polarizing issue that could define your candidacy," said Schubert, who led the campaign for Proposition 8.

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YOUR HELP NEEDED For One Final Step Toward Marriage Equality In New Hampshire Saturday, 05/30/09
Blue Hampshire

The vote in the House will be very close, so please -- if they live in your area, call or write to the 25 House Democrats who voted against HB 73 last week on May 20th, http://www.gencourt.state.nh.u... or if your State Rep. is a Republican please contact them to let them know you support religious freedom and independence.

Go to the NH Freedom To Marry WEBSITE at http://nhftm.org/ to see other ways that you can help. The organization has been doing great work on this cause and needs donations and help.

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Howard Dean: The Tide is Turning on Equal Marriage Saturday, 05/30/09
Change.org

I remember growing up, we used to say things about gay people; we didn't know anybody who was gay -- we didn't think we knew anybody who was gay. Once somebody says, 'I'm gay and I wish you wouldn't do that,' you don't talk like that anymore because they're a human being.

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Equal marriage advocates to reach out to churches Saturday, 05/30/09
Ventura County Star

Ventura County advocates for equal marriage plan to visit churches and synagogues as part of their effort to put the issue back on the California ballot in 2010.

"We don't want to get into screaming and yelling matches, we just want to tell our stories," said Lisa Hughes, a member of Equality Ventura County's faith outreach subcommittee.

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How Far Will Mormons Go to Fight Gay Couples? Saturday, 05/30/09
U.S. News and World Report

Opposing gay marriage in Utah (as the church did in 2004) is one thing, but taking a lead public role in a national campaign to deprive a persecuted minority of a right shared by all other Americans is another. It would be seen as a sign that the days of low-key tactics are over, and that the current Mormon leaders are prepared to give, and get, the political bruising that occurs when religion mixes with politics in America.

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We need your organization's letter of support for the Uniting American Families Act by Monday! Saturday, 05/30/09
Pam's House Blend

This year, I feel that we are finally at a tipping point and the bill is finally getting some traction. Sen Leahy is going to be holding a hearing about this bill next week and Rep Mike Honda is going to reintroduce the Reunite Families Act which will include language of UAFA in the bill. We are also hoping that when Comprehensive Immigration Reform is introduced next month, LGBT Families will be included under the definition of families for family reunification purposes.

That said, we just heard word from Sen Leahy's office that he want to have letters from organizations in support of this bill. I am now reaching out to you to urge your organization to write a letter of support for the Uniting American Families Act address to Senator Leahy, Chair of the Senate Judiciary Committee.

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Same-sex couples a sensitive issue in the black faith community Saturday, 05/30/09
Inside Bay Area

There is a deep rift in the black community about comparisons between gays' struggle for marriage equality and the civil rights struggle of African-Americans. The National Black Justice Coalition is one of the groups working to address this issue and recently hosted its fourth annual Black Church Summit at San Francisco's Glide Memorial.

Several members of the city's black clergy, who supported Prop. 8, were contacted for comment but did not return phone calls. One Oakland minister, however, who asked to remain anonymous, said he could understand why his colleagues also did not want to speak on the record. He said he believes they likely did not want to be seen as the face of hatred or railing publicly against the NAACP.

In addition, he said African-American pastors are dealing with many other crisis situations such as crime and violence, home foreclosures and school closures and that addressing rights for same-sex couples is not their top priority.

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Black, Gay and Reclaiming 'Civil Rights' Saturday, 05/30/09
Huffington Post

The thing is that are plenty of allies and leaders from the black community who do support full civil rights for LGBTs who can be cited when dealing with this issue -- John Lewis, Julian Bond, Leonard Pitts, Al Sharpton, Gov. Deval Patrick, Gov. David Paterson, to name a few. Members of black community who consistently oppose LGBT rights conveniently choose to ignore these leaders -- they have to be called out on it.

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NH: Equal marriage accord reached Saturday, 05/30/09
Union Leader

The bill will be voted on next week, as the third piece of a three-part equal-marriage proposal. Two bills have already passed -- House Bill 436, the main bill, and HB 310, with technical changes -- but a third became necessary when Lynch said he would veto the bills unless extra protections for religious groups were added. Language in the two bills that exempted clergy from performing marriages that their religions do not accept did not go far enough, Lynch said.

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Another Prop 8 Fallout: The Children Saturday, 05/30/09
SF Gate

Emotional trauma is defined as anything that seriously disrupts your sense of safety. Prop 8 was not an abstract, legal concept for kids of gay/lesbian families - it hit at the very core of their family. Imagine being a third-grade kid and knowing the government announced that your beloved mom or dad is a type of person officially barred from marriage, and that they could have been legally, instantly divorced against their will. What would happen to you? How hard would it be for you to sit and eat your peas calmly at dinner that night?

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For Gay Leaders, Obama's Silence on Prop. 8 Speaks Volumes Saturday, 05/30/09
Edge

But one major source of leadership has been silent on the issue: President Barack Obama, who pledged while on the campaign trail last year to advocate for the civil rights of gay and lesbian Americans.

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Prop. 8 Dream Team Backlash Saturday, 05/30/09
NY Times

More formally, the ACLU, GLAAD, the Human Rights Campaign and related groups issued a statement that said "Most lawsuits will set us back," and argued that the best way forward was to work locally first, then nationally

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Protest Against Prop. 8 Equal Marriage Ruling Friday, 05/29/09

It's an exercise in pointlessness to hold an election rally after the election is long over and decided.


Gay rights advocates rip suit to undo Prop. 8 Thursday, 05/28/09
SF Gate

While Olson shares the same end goal as same-sex marriage advocates, he doesn't share their political strategy - to win states individually, with ballot initiatives or laws approved by state legislatures. Several same-sex marriage advocates intend to put the issue to voters in November 2010.

Olson thinks both strategies can work simultaneously. But many gay legal advocates are urging same-sex couples to avoid filing federal lawsuits because federal courts have not been as friendly to gay rights issues.

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NH: Senate rejects call for equal marriage vote Thursday, 05/28/09
Nashua Telegraph

The state Senate turned down a nonbinding referendum on same-sex marriage and agreed to name a team of negotiators in hopes of reaching a new compromise.

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The next equal marriage vote: 2010 or 2012? Thursday, 05/28/09
Sacramento Bee

Equality California, which says it's the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender-rights advocacy organization in the state, has concluded that sooner is better than later.

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Group Begins Ad Blitz Against Same-Sex Couples Thursday, 05/28/09
NY Times

Advocates for same-sex couples in New York, who have been laying groundwork for the bill for several years through grass-roots activity -- like recruiting supporters who are now reaching out to senators -- have spent at least $200,000 on television ads in the last few weeks. A commercial running in the Albany, Buffalo and Syracuse markets features a husband and wife who say it is unfair that their lesbian daughter cannot get married while their straight one can.

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Until Logic Did Them Apart Thursday, 05/28/09
The New Republic

The ubiquity of this hollow formulation tells us something about the state of anti-gay-couple thought. It's a body of opinion held largely by people who either don't know why they oppose gay couples or don't feel comfortable explicating their case.

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The big gay shrug Wednesday, 05/27/09
SF Gate

Equal marriage is a foregone conclusion. It's a done deal. It's just a matter of time. For the next generation in particular, equal rights for gays is not even a question or a serious issue, much less a sinful hysterical conundrum that can only be answered by terrified Mormons and confused old people and inane referendums funded by same. It's just obvious, inevitable, a given.

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Phyllis Lyon: "It Will Be OK" Wednesday, 05/27/09
LA Times

I'm optimistic about the future. Look at all the states that have now done this. Boom. Boom. Boom. Boom. They may not all last. But it's going to be all right. It may not be while I'm alive, but eventually it will work out that if two people want to get married, they can get married and it won't matter to whom. We went through this before with people of color. It will be OK.

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More than 100 Cities Fight Back Against H8 Wednesday, 05/27/09
Change.org

Marriage equality may have been denied in California yesterday (although let's not forget that we do have 18,000 same-sex couples whose marriages will remain valid by the state), but the renewed energy and movement to push for equal rights has only just begun.

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Are Lawsuits The Best Way To Go? Wednesday, 05/27/09
Box Turtle Bulletin

Rather than filing premature lawsuits, we need to talk to our friends, family and neighbors, and help them understand why denial of the freedom to marry is wrong. We need to build a vigorous, aggressive campaign to overturn Prop 8 and restore the freedom to marry in California. This is the moment to convince California and America that we should have the freedom to marry.

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Prop. 8 stands; more ballot battles ahead Wednesday, 05/27/09
SF Gate

"Despite this injustice, we are prepared to return to the ballot box together with our allies to restore the freedom to marry," said Geoff Kors, executive director of Equality California, which took part in the legal challenge. "As more and more states across the nation allow same-sex couples to marry," he said, he is confident that California voters will respond to the next campaign.

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Bush vs. Gore rivals challenge Prop. 8 in federal court Wednesday, 05/27/09
LA Times

Former U.S. Solicitor General Theodore B. Olson and David Boies, who represented then-Vice President Al Gore in the contested election, have joined forces to tackle the equal marriage issue, which has deeply divided Californians and left 18,000 gay couples married last year in legal isolation.

In a project of the American Foundation for Equal Rights, Olson and Boies have united to represent two same-sex couples filing suit after being denied marriage licenses because of Proposition 8.

Their suit, to be filed in U.S. District Court in California, calls for an injunction against the proposition, allowing immediate reinstatement of marriage rights for same-sex couples.

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What's next for same-sex couples? Wednesday, 05/27/09
CNN

While California's Supreme Court on Tuesday upheld a ban on same-sex marriages that voters voters passed in November, the fight will undoubtedly go forward.

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Which U.S. states may legalize gay marriage next Wednesday, 05/27/09
Reuters

Gay rights advocates in the most populous U.S. state plan to resume their fight and go back to voters either next year or in 2012 in a bid to repeal Proposition 8, which defines marriage as between a man and a woman and was passed in November 2008 elections.

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Prop 8 Advocates: Grandfathering Gay Marriages Akin to Letting Landowners Keep Slaves After Abolition Wednesday, 05/27/09
SF Weekly

The press release compares letting gay people stay married after today's ruling to letting slaves stay owned in America after slavery was abolished. Yep. They've actually brought our country's greatest civil rights victory into an argument about taking civil rights away from another minority group.

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New poll says New Yorkers want equal marriage brought to vote, even if passage not a sure thing Tuesday, 05/26/09
New York Daily News

Nearly eight of 10 New Yorkers say the state Senate should put a bill legalizing equal marriage up for a vote regardless of whether there's enough support to pass it, a new poll released Tuesday shows.

The Siena College poll shows that 78% of those surveyed disagree with Senate Majority Leader Malcolm Smith, who said he would only bring the bill to the floor only if he has the 32 votes needed to pass it.

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Gay couple in litigation criticizes ruling Tuesday, 05/26/09
Mercury News

Robin Tyler says she is glad Diane Olson is still her wife but upset about the court decision.

Tyler said at a news conference in Los Angeles after Tuesday's ruling that she was "as upset as if our marriage had been taken away."

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Ed Murray: Rallies Are Fine, Organizing Is Better Tuesday, 05/26/09
The Stranger

There's a sense that real progress is being made here, that we're gaining ground, not losing ground, so who needs rallies and protests?

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We're Winning Tuesday, 05/26/09
The Stranger

We're going to go back to the ballot box in California in 2010 or 2012 and voters are going to repeal Prop 8.

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View Live Feed of Meet in the Middle Here on Unite the Fight! Tuesday, 05/26/09
Unite the Fight

If you can't make it because of kids, work or you live far away, be sure to come back to this post and watch it LIVE right here on Unite the Fight! We will also have one-on-one video interviews with the speakers!

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Equality California Vows to Restore Marriage at Ballot Box in Wake of Prop. 8 Ruling Tuesday, 05/26/09
Equality California

Despite today's setback, Equality California is committed to restoring the freedom to marry. We believe, as do the majority of our members, that 2010 is the best time to return to the ballot to repeal Prop. 8. We must take full advantage of the momentum and commitment people now have to do the work required on the ground. However, we will make the final decision on when to return in collaboration with our coalition partners and allies throughout the state.

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Courage Campaign: 1 Million for Marriage Equality Tuesday, 05/26/09
Courage Campaign

It's time to go on offense. To be fearless in our fight for equality. Starting right now.

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California Supreme Court Upholds Ban on Same-Sex Marriage Tuesday, 05/26/09
NY Times

Heated reaction to the decision began immediately, with protestors blocking traffic near the Supreme Court, and advocates for same-sex couples beginning plans for another election. In Los Angeles, Jennifer Pizer, the Marriage Project Director for Lambda Legal, said that the decision "puts it to us to repair the damage at the ballot box." One of the state's largest gay equality groups, Equality California, sent an e-mail message to supporters pleading for contributions to raise $500,000 toward "a massive campaign to put an initiative on the ballot and win."

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What will our side do during the Prop 8 rallies? Tuesday, 05/26/09
Pam's House Blend

Here is a thoughtful piece by Christopher Geidner@ Law Dork. He discusses the soon-to-be known decision about Prop 8 and the possible reactions in the LGBT community if the ruling is not in our favor -- either nullifying all the same-sex marriages or allowing the thousands of existing marriages to remain intact while still affirming Prop 8. He belives the Supreme Court will have the split decision. He also shares my concern that we have to worry just as much about misplaced anger turning into violence as we do from the right.

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Hundreds pray on eve of Prop 8 ruling Tuesday, 05/26/09
Mercury News

Several representatives of various faiths said they were ready to get arrested in acts of civil disobedience if the court does not overturn the ban.

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Twice-divorced Nevada governor vetoes domestic partnership bill Monday, 05/25/09
Mercury News

Harrah's Entertainment has called for an override if Gibbons vetoed the measure.

The casino giant pointed to an estimated $700 billion in buying power among potential lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender customers.

The bill also had support from of the powerful Nevada Resort Association, and drew praise from the American Civil Liberties Union of Nevada.

Gary Peck, ACLU executive in Las Vegas, called domestic partnership rights an economic and civil rights issue.

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Gay-equality champion leaving Equality Utah post Monday, 05/25/09
Salt Lake Tribune

Mike Thompson, Equality Utah's executive director is leaving the 5-year-old organization after four years at the helm. His last day is Friday.

The Oklahoma native is heading west to San Francisco -- a city he has wanted to live in for a long time -- to do what he does best: Build up fledgling nonprofits.

"He's always pushed to increase the number of people we serve," says Jane Marquardt, a former Equality Utah board member who helped to recruit Thompson. "Every year, we've gotten bigger."

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Distortions Aside, Clergy Support Gay Rights in Surprising Numbers Sunday, 05/24/09
Religion Dispatches

An in-depth analysis of Mainline Protestant clergy shows large majorities of support for anti-discrimination laws, hate crimes legislation, and the right of gay couples to adopt children. Even same-sex marriage, so often portrayed by Religious Right leaders as an attack on the church, draws support from nearly half of Mainline Protestant clergy when it is clarified that no church would be forced to bless same-sex couples.

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How Obama set the tone for a quiet revolution in gay rights Sunday, 05/24/09
Guardian

This summer is also the 40th anniversary of the Woodstock music festival. As both gays and straights gear up for a new summer of love, author David Carter, who wrote Stonewall, the definitive book on the riots and their significance, put the onus on Obama not to betray the spirit of optimism. "If he lives up to his promises, then it could be a golden age for our rights," he said.

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For gay couples, married matters Sunday, 05/24/09
Boston Globe

A significant majority of the 558 gay men and women surveyed said that since marrying, they feel more committed to their spouses, more accepted in their community, and more likely to be open about their sexual orientation at work.

The survey indicates that there is something universal about the legal protections and social advantages afforded by the institution of marriage, said the study's authors from the University of California, Los Angeles as well as independent researchers. And it suggests, they said, that a ritual once scorned even by many same-sex couples has the power to ease discrimination.

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La Cage aux Democrats Sunday, 05/24/09
NY Times

As Wolfson reminds us in his book "Why Marriage Matters," Dr. King addressed such dawdling in 1963. "For years now I have heard the word 'Wait,' " King wrote. "It rings in the ear of every Negro with piercing familiarity. This 'Wait' has almost always meant 'Never.' "

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Harrah's Hotel and Casino Pleads for Gay Equality on Economic Grounds Saturday, 05/23/09
Queers United

The Harrah's chain of Las Vegas casinos and hotels has written a letter to Nevada's legislature warning about a potential loss in gay tourism if Gov. Gibbons vetoes that state's pending domestic partners bill.

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Same-Sex Marriage Laws Pose Protection Quandary Saturday, 05/23/09
NY Times

Opponents of same-sex couples have frequently said it threatens to penalize members of the clergy who refuse to solemnize such unions or who preach against them. Legal experts almost unanimously dismiss such alarms. Refusals to officiate or to mute a religious doctrine, they say, are solidly protected by the First Amendment.

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NH: Local reps optimistic equal marriage bill will pass Saturday, 05/23/09
Seacoast Online

In the wake of the narrow defeat of a equal marriage bill in the New Hampshire House this week, local legislators who support the measure said they take solace where they can find it -- and they find quite a bit that leads them to think a bill could pass this session.

"We always knew it was going to be tough. We were hoping for passage, but losing was not a surprise," said state Rep. Jim Splaine, D-Portsmouth, a sponsor of the original equal marriage bill. "The media made a big deal that it was a done deal; it was going to pass. But we who were counting votes, we knew better."

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Queer Developments Saturday, 05/23/09
NY Times

According to the group Freedom to Marry, about 13 percent of Americans now live in a state that allows gay couples or recognizes marriage licenses issued in other states, and that percentage is certain to rise. The gist of the disagreement now isn't partisan or theological as much as it is generational. Unlike their parents, younger Americans and those now transitioning into middle age have had openly gay friends and colleagues all their lives, and they understand homosexuality to be a form of biological happenstance rather than of emotional disturbance.

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Maine: When's a signature not really a signature? Saturday, 05/23/09
Kennebec Journal

In a recent series of postings, some commenters -- nearly all of whom are anonymous -- said they were planning to sign fake names on the people's veto petition that seeks to overturn the new equal-marriage law.

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Obama's promise to gays Friday, 05/22/09
LA Times


Some gay activists fear that, given the welter of other issues confronting the president, he may be unwilling to expend time or political capital on this or other gay-rights initiatives. Their anxiety was exacerbated by Obama's refusal to intervene in the expulsion from the National Guard of Dan Choi, an Arabic-speaking Iraq war veteran who disclosed he was gay in a TV interview. White House Press Secretary Robert Gibbs said Choi's case showed that "don't ask, don't tell" is a failure, adding that Obama would work with Congress and the Pentagon on a new policy. But changes, he said, "require more than the snapping of one's fingers."

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Why the New York GOP should embrace gay marriage Friday, 05/22/09
New York Daily News

Gays and lesbians are a vital part of our communities. They are doctors, teachers, firefighters, emergency personnel and neighbors. In this way, marriage equality is also about supporting good citizens and strengthening our communities. When a committed gay couple seeks to declare their love for one another and get married, the whole community benefits from the added stability and strength of that family. On top of that, we don't give up anything by sharing responsibilities and protections with those whom we love.

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Some 18,000 marriages hanging in the balance Friday, 05/22/09
Ventura County Star

I wonder how conservatives must feel, knowing that they are keeping two human beings from engaging in one of the most responsible acts in civil society -- committing your life to someone else -- from happening.

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Obama To Be In Los Angeles Day After Decision Day Friday, 05/22/09
Box Turtle Bulletin

Do you think he can make it through the entire visit without mentioning Prop 8?

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State high court to rule Tuesday on Prop. 8 Friday, 05/22/09
SF Gate

The court announced the impending decision today in lawsuits by same-sex couples and local governments, led by San Francisco, seeking to overturn the measure that 52 percent of California voters approved in November. If the court upholds the measure, it must also decide how the proposition affects the marriages of about 18,000 same-sex couples who wed before the Nov. 4 election.

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Gay marriage in DC moves debate to black community Thursday, 05/21/09
Washington Post

Despite Barry and Jackson's claims, there's evidence the city isn't as split on equal marriage as some suggest. Of the 12 council members who voted in favor of the equal-marriage bill, six are black.

A group of Democrats in the primarily black ward that Barry represents voted 21 to 11 to support same-sex couples over the weekend. And Washington has a history of supporting equal rights; the city passed a law in 1992 recognizing domestic partnerships.

Local gay advocates have accused critics of framing the debate as one led by rich, white gay men forcing the issue on working class black residents.

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Generations reshape gay marriage debate Thursday, 05/21/09
USA Today

Trends suggest the contentious political struggle could fade in the not-too-distant future. The states where same-sex marriage is more tolerated are passing laws allowing it. Younger Americans, more eclectic in their views on social issues and more likely to have friends or family members who are openly gay, are more tolerant of same-sex couples than their parents or grandparents and appear to be more interested in compromise.

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Gay equality group: Maine diocese violating tax law Thursday, 05/21/09
AP

The Empowering Spirits Foundation said its challenge was filed Wednesday at an Internal Revenue Service office in Dallas. The San Diego-based group said the diocese is engaging in political activity by collecting signatures for the referendum, violating IRS rules applying to nonprofits.

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Equal marriage in NH hinges on compromise Thursday, 05/21/09
Boston Globe

Democratic legislative leaders hope to bring a compromise to a vote as early as June 3. If it passes, the bill and two already passed bills needed to implement equal marriage would be sent to Lynch for signature.

Rep. Jim Splaine, prime sponsor of the main equal marriage bill, said Thursday that advocates will use the next two weeks to educate lawmakers about the religious protections Lynch wants.

"The governor's made it clear he wants to stick to the core principles he's offered," said Splaine, D-Portsmouth. "We can do this."

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Illinois poised to approve civil unions Thursday, 05/21/09
Washington Blade

The Illinois General Assembly is expected to approve a measure next week that would legalize civil unions, according to an LGBT activist.

Rick Garcia, political director for Equality Illinois, said Thursday he's "absolutely" expecting the full state House and the Senate to pass a civil union measure either Tuesday or Wednesday. The bill has support from Illinois Gov. Pat Quinn (D).

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Setback to Gay Marriage in New Hampshire Thursday, 05/21/09
NY Times

The vote made the bill's survival less certain, but the measure is not dead yet. It will now go to a joint committee of the legislature, which will try to come up with language acceptable to the House and Senate. But it is unclear whether Governor Lynch, a Democrat, would sign it.

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New Hampshire lawmakers reject gay-marriage bill Wednesday, 05/20/09
Reuters

New Hampshire lawmakers unexpectedly rejected a bill on Wednesday that would have made the state the sixth in the United States to authorize gay marriage.

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Gay Marriage Slow to Draw an Opposition in N.Y. Wednesday, 05/20/09
NY Times

As the Legislature considers whether to make New York the next state to legalize same-sex marriage, social conservatives have been largely missing from the debate in Albany.

The interest groups working to legalize marriage for gay couples have been laying the groundwork for more than four years, lobbying lawmakers and funneling hundreds of thousands of dollars to their campaigns. And last week they began running television commercials in three of the state's largest media markets promoting same-sex marriage as an equal rights issue.

Their opponents, who are just beginning to organize, say they feel outgunned and underfinanced.

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ME: Question ready for foes of gay marriage Wednesday, 05/20/09
Kennebec Journal

Petitioners have until 90 days after the Legislature adjourns to collect 55,087 signatures.

The secretary of state then has 30 days to certify the signatures.

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Conyers says he has votes to repeal Defense of Marriage Act Tuesday, 05/19/09
Michigan Messenger

U.S. Rep. John Conyers, a Detroit Democrat, said Saturday in an interview with Michigan Messenger that the votes are in place in the House Judiciary Committee, which he chairs, to repeal the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).

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Gay Couples Will Benefit Ailing Economy Tuesday, 05/19/09
SFist

What gay marriage can do for the country is add a whopping $16.8 billion toward the "gross national wedding product." Engagement rings alone, according to a Forbes study, would run at $1.8 billion a year. And that money would positively affect, you guessed it, small businesses.

Gay marriage is a "really simple to understand goldmine."

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Senate panel OKs Lynch changes Tuesday, 05/19/09
Union Leader

The Senate Judiciary Committee today voted 3-2 to recommend greater legal protections for religious groups and institutions to win Gov. John Lynch's approval of gay marriage.

The committee voted down an amendment proposed by Republican committee members to further protect businesses and individuals who oppose gay marriage because of their religious beliefs.

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NY: Quinn 'Can't Bullshit' On Gay Marriage Tuesday, 05/19/09
New York Daily News

There has been speculation as to how many votes Smith and marriage advocates lack, with the number floating anywhere from the rather optimistic (four) to the seemingly unreachable (six or more). When I asked Quinn for an update, she referred me to Smith's office.

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NV: Poll finds half oppose law allowing civil unions Tuesday, 05/19/09
Las Vegas Review-Journal

Democrats and independents back efforts in the Legislature to allow same- and opposite-sex domestic partnerships. But because of the overwhelming Republican opposition, Nevadans overall reject such civil unions by a 12 percentage point margin, according to a poll conducted for the Las Vegas Review-Journal.

The poll, which did not gather opinions about gay marriage itself, found 38 percent of Nevadans favor domestic partner legislation, while 50 percent oppose it and the remainder are undecided.

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Kept From a Dying Partner's Bedside Tuesday, 05/19/09
NY Times

The case, now the subject of a federal lawsuit in Florida, is being watched by gay rights groups, which say same-sex partners often report being excluded from a patient's room because they aren't "real" family members.

And lawyers say the case could affect the way hospitals treat all patients with nonmarital relationships, including older people who choose not to marry, unmarried heterosexual couples and single people who rely on the support of close friends rather than relatives.

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If the state Supreme Court upholds Proposition 8... should we support going back to the ballot to restore marriage equality to California in 2010 or 2012? Tuesday, 05/19/09
Courage Campaign

ONE PERSON, ONE VOTE: Tell us when you think the Courage Campaign should support placing a marriage equality initiative on the ballot -- 2010 or 2012?

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Study: Gay marriages pump $111 million into Mass Monday, 05/18/09
Boston Globe

The report from the Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law says a typical same-sex couple spent about $7,400 on their wedding, with one in ten couples spending over $20,000.

A second study by the same group found that young, highly educated people in same-sex relationships were 2.5 times more likely to move to Massachusetts after 2004 than before gay marriage became legal.

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Black clergy opposing gay marriage resent civil rights comparision Monday, 05/18/09
Buffalo News

Some local black clergy said they oppose same-sex marriage but they were uncomfortable elaborating because they didn't want to upset gay and lesbian members of their churches. They said they consider any sexual activity outside of traditional marriage between a man and woman to be sinful. But they also did not want to dwell on negative behavior or judge parishioners who are gay, they said.

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MUST WATCH! LGBT Folk From All Over the World Proclaim, "I'm Proud to Be Gay!" Monday, 05/18/09
Unite the Fight

Some of these people took real risks to be a part of this project. One that popped out to me was the Iraqi man who risks his life going on tape, admitting that he's gay.

That's just one.

We should all be proud.

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Anti-Gays Hold Much Larger Rally Than Marriage Equality Supporters in NYC Monday, 05/18/09
Unite the Fight

WE HAVE TO ACT NOW TO HELP THE PASSAGE OF THE MARRIAGE EQUALITY BILL!

Six weeks is all that is left before the senate session adjourns for the year. If it's not brought up to a vote, it will most likely die.

Contact the New York Senators and urge them to vote yes for the bill.

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WeHo Formally "Gets Its Andaz On" Over Prop 8 Contribution Monday, 05/18/09
WeHo News

Saying that "the use of economic boycotts is an effective nonviolent tactic in the civil rights movement," the resolution calls for the WeHo's newest hotel to sever ties business ties with the Manchester Grand Hyatt in San Diego. Despite that implication, the resolution does not call for a boycott of the Andaz Hotel.

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East Dallas Methodist pastor counters First Baptist sermon with 'Why Gay Is OK' message Monday, 05/18/09
Dallas News

The pastor of little Grace United Methodist Church took a swipe at big First Baptist Church of Dallas on Sunday with a sermon titled "Why Gay Is OK."

The message was delivered as a counterpunch to "Why Gay Is Not OK," a November sermon by First Baptist pastor Dr. Robert Jeffress.

"I knew I had to preach about this," the Rev. Diana Holbert said Sunday.

She told her diverse East Dallas congregation that homosexuality is not a big issue in the Bible and that Christians should be more focused on subjects such as health care, greed in the corporate world, and the welfare of children.

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Trend toward allowing same-sex marriage is undeniable Sunday, 05/17/09
Journal Sentinel

In 2006, almost 60% of Wisconsinites approved the amendment. Less than three years later, that percentage already would be a lot lower. Only 55% of people in a nationwide poll by Quinnipiac University said they were opposed to gay marriage last month. And 57% said they favored allowing gay couples to form civil unions that would provide marriage-like rights.

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Gay equality vote expected in NH Wednesday Sunday, 05/17/09
KTIV

New Hampshire's Legislature is expected to vote Wednesday on an amendment Gov. John Lynch says he must have to sign gay marriage into law.

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CO: Boy spearheads gay-marriage rally Sunday, 05/17/09
Denver Post

The idea first came to Ethan thanks to his neighbors, a lesbian couple he described as "the nicest people in the world." He didn't think it was right they aren't allowed to get married.

From there, Ethan resolved to support gay couples. He approached Mindy Barton, legal director for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center of Colorado, to gain support.

"He already had a lot of it figured out," Barton said. "There was no doubt Ethan was going to put together a rally on the steps of the Capitol."

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DC: A Vote for Same-Sex Marriage Sunday, 05/17/09
Washington Post

But yesterday, gay rights advocates declared victory in a key battle to set the tone for the issue when the Ward 8 Democrats voted 21 to 11 to support the legalization of same-sex marriage, in preparation for legislation expected to be introduced in the D.C. Council this year.

The Ward 8 vote came after almost two hours of discussion about religion, referendums and civil rights among the crowd of about 100 people at the Washington Highlands Library on Atlantic Avenue SW.

Barry, who was scheduled to speak for the opposition, did not attend. Sandy Allen, a former council member and president of the Ward 8 Democrats, said Barry told her he had a doctor's appointment.

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In Advance of Equality Demo, Thousands Rally Against Gay Marriage Sunday, 05/17/09
Gay City News

In an event that generously mixed politics and religion, thousands of opponents of marriage equality for same-sex couples rallied outside of the New York City offices of Governor David Paterson on May 17 and called on the State Senate and God to stop the advance of same-sex marriage in New York.

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Gay-Marriage Issue Awaits Court Pick Sunday, 05/17/09
Washington Post

Questions on social issues in confirmation hearings have tended for the past 30 years to focus squarely on abortion, with partisans from both sides poring over a nominee's writings and rulings and presidents typically denying that any "litmus test" was employed in the selection.

Same-sex marriage carries the same freighted potential to dominate a hearing, conservatives say.

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Equality bill evokes unity in NY Saturday, 05/16/09
Newsday

After nearly four hours of what many consider the best debate Albany has seen in at least a decade, the Assembly approved O'Donnell's bill 89-52. The margin of victory is growing - the measure passed 85-61 in 2007 - and, more importantly for supporters, the bill drew support from some contrite lawmakers who previously opposed the bill.

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NY: GOP Marriage Bombshell? Saturday, 05/16/09
New York Daily News

There has been speculation that several GOP senators might be willing to vote "yes" on marriage, including Vincent Leibell and James Alesi. But so far, neither of those two - nor any other minority members for that matter - have been willing to tip their hands.

Advocates are hoping that the 89-52 Assembly vote earlier this week will help pressure some lawmakers in the upper house - particularly those on Long Island, where the Empire State Pride Agenda has been polling - to reconsider their positions.

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Domestic partnerships bill passes Nevada Assembly Friday, 05/15/09
Tahoe Daily Tribune

The Assembly Friday gave final legislative approval to legislation creating domestic partnerships in Nevada.

The bill goes to twice-divorced Gov. Jim Gibbons who has said he will veto it.

Assemblyman Tick Segerblom, D-Las Vegas told the body the bill doesn't create gay marriage and doesn't require employers to provide benefits to domestic partners.

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Next Steps on Marriage Equality Friday, 05/15/09
Blue Hampshire

All this is an open process which, really, has been eight months in the making, and which include recommendations of the House, Senate, and now the Governor's Office. The timing could be that all will be finished by the end of next week.

Please keep contacting your House and Senate members and ask them to support the completion of this process so that House Bill 436 and marriage equality will be a reality.

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Memo: Wis. domestic partnership plan likely legal Friday, 05/15/09
WKBT

An analysis prepared for lawmakers says Gov. Jim Doyle's plan to give same-sex couples some legal protections likely does not violate the state ban on gay marriage.

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With The 'Gay Tax,' Love Doesn't Come Cheap Friday, 05/15/09
NPR

DOMA defines marriage as being the legal union of a man and a woman. On that basis, the federal government denies to legally married same-sex couples the 1,138 federal protections and benefits it extends to all other married couples. So I'm not surprised that a March 2009 report from UCLA found that same-sex partners are more likely to be poor than our heterosexual counterparts -- in large part because of our lack of access to supposedly universal safety nets, such as a spouse's health insurance coverage and Social Security survivor benefits.

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How New York Can Get Around Sen. Ruben Diaz (But Possibly Won't) Friday, 05/15/09
Queerty

Democratic Majority Leader Malcolm Smith says he won't bring the bill up for a vote unless he knows he has the support for it -- something he doesn't have us convinced he's even working on, thanks to the promise he made anti-gay Sen. Ruben Diaz.

Which means even with the Democrats having a majority (a slim 32-30), there will be no action on S.B. 4401, which has 19 sponsors; Smith is only a "supporter." But how could we get there? Excel wizard Nate Silver runs the numbers:

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California: Protect the Alameda Inclusive Curriculum Friday, 05/15/09
NCLR

Please attend and show up early to keep the right-wing protesters from shutting everyone else out. You do not have to be prepared to speak, but bring t-shirts and signs to show your support.

This meeting is of critical importance, not just for the children and families in Alameda, but for the entire Bay Area.

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Maine: Foes of gay marriage mobilize Friday, 05/15/09
Maine Today

They need to collect 55,087 signatures by mid-September to put the veto question before voters. Any registered Maine voter can collect signatures. The three groups don't need to coordinate; all the signatures essentially go into one pot, to be verified by the Secretary of State.

They have until 90 days after the Legislature adjourns to collect the signatures. The adjournment date is currently June 17, but lawmakers may adjourn earlier or later, depending on when they finish work.

And, Flynn said, her office needs 60 days before the Nov. 4 election to certify signatures and get the question on the ballot. If signatures are turned in after Sept. 4 (but before the legal requirement of mid-September) the veto question would appear on the ballot in the next statewide election -- June 8, 2010 -- instead of the Nov. 4 election.

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Gay Equality Leaders Look Beyond Marriage Battle Friday, 05/15/09
KPIX

Any day now the California Supreme Court will rule on the validity of Proposition 8, the voter-approved ban on same-sex marriage. The issue is important to activists, but the marriage issue is not the only priority for the gay rights movement.

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Last Push! Make New Hampshire Happen! Thursday, 05/14/09
The New Civil Rights Movement

If you live in New Hampshire, or if you know anyone who does, please, make sure you ask them to contact their state representative to ensure they vote 'YES' on this final measure to make gay marriage legal!

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New Hampshire Legislature Support Governor's Changes Thursday, 05/14/09
The New Civil Rights Movement

The New Hampshire Legislature, officially known as the General Court, has said it will support the changes Governor John Lynch requested be made to the state's gay marriage bill.

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Rhode Island Debates Gay Marriage, Skirts Voting Thursday, 05/14/09
On Top Magazine

Priests mingled with gay and lesbian couples during an evening House Judiciary Committee hearing yesterday on two proposed gay marriage bills - one would legalize the institution, while the other would place the question before voters.

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Democrats' Domino Effect on Gay Marriage Issue? Thursday, 05/14/09
ABC News

Polling shows the country moving with deliberate speed on the issue. According to the latest ABC News/Washington Post poll, 54 percent of moderates and 52 percent of independents now favor gay marriage. That's an uptick from 38 percent and 44 percent, respectively, in 2006.

The issue still clearly cuts along partisan lines, but with 62 percent of all Democrats in favor of gay marriage, party leaders and elected officials who once opposed gay marriage will likely seek to align themselves with the majority of the party they seek to lead.

It is no surprise that the three aforementioned Democrats who recently switched their positions on the issue hail from the Northeast. According to the ABC News/Washington Post poll, support for gay marriage peaks in the East at 59 percent and gets its lowest level of regional support in the South, where only 42 percent of voters approve of same-sex marriage.

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WI Supreme Court to look at state's gay marriage ban Thursday, 05/14/09

The Wisconsin Supreme Court will look at a challenge to that vote. Namely, whether the referendum illegally put two issues to voters at the same time: whether to ban gay marriage and whether to outlaw civil unions.


Ballot fight likely in 2010 to repeal Prop 8 Thursday, 05/14/09
Bay Area Reporter

Following the Courage Campaign's "Camp Courage" in Oakland earlier this month, organizers of the grassroots training event all but said they were ready to go forward next year. Then last week, EQCA unveiled its new campaign, "Win Marriage Back: Make It Real." Officials said that 25 newly hired field organizers would soon begin working with same-sex marriage supporters up and down the state in advance of any official electoral campaign. EQCA also began airing television ads statewide this week featuring same-sex couples talking with their families about marriage equality.

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NH: Governor Lynch's Statement on Same-Sex Marriage Bill Thursday, 05/14/09
New Hampshire Public Radio

Attached is the language Gov. Lynch has proposed for the same Sex legislation.

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Governor will sign gay marriage bill in NH if changes are made Thursday, 05/14/09
New England Cable News

New Hampshire Governor John Lynch says he will sign a bill to legalize gay marriage in the Granite State, but only if legislators make some changes.

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BREAKING NEWS: New Hampshire Governor Will Sign Gay Marriage Bill Thursday, 05/14/09
The New Civil Rights Movement

At 2:15 this afternoon, New Hampshire Governor John Lynch announced that he will sign his state's gay marriage bill, making New Hampshire the sixth state in the union to legalize same-sex marriage. However, he wants the Legislature to make additional changes, according to New Hampshire Public Radio.

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The Fierce Urgency Of Whenever Thursday, 05/14/09
Andrew Sullivan

But I have a sickeningly familiar feeling in my stomach, and the feeling deepens with every interaction with the Obama team on these issues. They want them to go away. They want us to go away.

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What Motivated the Same-Sex-Marriage Switchers Wednesday, 05/13/09
New York Magazine

Last night a bill legalizing same-sex marriage passed the State Assembly with four more votes than it received just two years ago. Some seats had switched party hands, and some members were absent for one vote or the other, but the most interesting difference in the votes were the five legislators who had voted no in 2007 but voted yes this time around. What was behind their changes of heart on the issue?

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Donald Trump, Miss California, and Barack Obama Tuesday, 05/12/09
AmericaBlog

From Obama's embrace of anti-gay activist Donny McClurkin, to his choice of anti-gay bigot Rick Warren to give the inauguration invocation, to the bizarre disappearance of most of the gay civil rights promises to the White House Web site, to the continual backtracking on the President's commitment to repeal Don't Ask Don't Tell, to the upcoming firing of more gay service members, to the fact that the White House Web site still has not restored the President's public commitment to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, to the White House's obvious reticence to choose an openly gay person for Obama's cabinet, the list goes on and on. And gay Americans continue to go from hopeful to skeptical to bitter. The goodwill, along with Elvis, long ago left the building. What could have been a disagreement with a friend is quickly heading towards a major, damaging showdown.

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NYS Assembly Says Yes To Gay Marriage Tuesday, 05/12/09
Outcome Buffalo

In order to become law the bill will need passage in the State Senate and signed by the Governor. Senate Majority Leader Malcolm Smith (D. ) has stated that the Senate will consider the bill this session if it become apparent that there are enough Senators who will support the legislation with their vote.

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RI: Same-sex marriage bills to be heard Wednesday Tuesday, 05/12/09
Press Release

Scheduled for a hearing is a bill (2009-H 5744) sponsored by Rep. Arthur Handy (D-Dist. 18, Cranston) to broaden the definition of persons eligible to marry to include persons of the same gender. It also provides that members of the clergy would not be required to officiate at any particular marriage.

Also scheduled is a bill (2009-H 5068) sponsored by Rep. Jon D. Brien (D-Dist. 50, Woonsocket) to submit to the electors a proposition to amend the state constitution to define marriage as a lawful union between one man and one woman.

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Support grows for federal DOMA repeal Tuesday, 05/12/09
365Gay

How soon a bill will be filed in Congress to overturn DOMA is anyone's guess. If it were to pass President Obama has said he would sign it, although he prefers civil unions to marriage.

Even if the bill is filed this session, it may find difficulty getting to a vote. In addition to opposition from Republicans and anumber of conservative Democrats, mainly from Bible belt states, Speaker Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.) seems in no rush to advance repeal.

At her weekly press conference last week, Pelosi suggested there may not be enough votes yet for repeal.

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NY: Assemblyman Makes Gay Marriage Bill Personal Tuesday, 05/12/09
NY Times

For Mr. O'Donnell, the lobbying is intensely personal. When he has been unable to persuade colleagues to vote yes, he has sent his partner, John Banta, director of special events for the Metropolitan Opera, to try instead.

The two men met as freshmen at Catholic University in 1978, began dating two years later and have been together ever since. Mr. O'Donnell frequently brings Mr. Banta along to legislative gatherings, he said, so his colleagues could see what a gay couple looks like.

"That wasn't accidental," he explained, adding: "I knew if I wanted my colleagues to treat me and treat my community with equality, they would have to see John and I through the prism of a relationship."

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Faking Left Tuesday, 05/12/09
NY Times

Thus gay marriage opponents' persistent disadvantage. They can argue from tradition, custom and Christianity -- as Obama himself does, albeit with dubious sincerity, to explain why he backs civil unions but not full-fledged marriage. They can note the perils of formally severing the link between marriage and childbearing in a society where far too many children are born outside of wedlock as it is. But supporters of gay marriage are the only ones making an argument from personal liberty -- the freedom to marry, the right to marry -- and that has made all the difference.

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Urge Maryland Attorney General and Governor to Review Marriage Laws Tuesday, 05/12/09
Queers United

Contact AG Douglas F. Gansler and urge him to evaluate Maryland law. Even if doesn't go anywhere, it will stir up the conversation of marriage equality in the "Old Line State."

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How Hospitals Treat Same-Sex Couples Tuesday, 05/12/09
NY Times

While heterosexual couples typically don't have to provide marriage licenses to hospitals in order to prove they are husband and wife, same sex couples often must document their relationship to hospital officials before being allowed to take part in a partner's care.

"There is a real disconnect between what might be a good written policy or state law and actual implementation of that policy or law," said Ellen Kahn, family project director for the HRC. "If you're presenting as two men in a couple and you say, 'This is my partner. I'll make medical decisions,' you're asked a lot of questions. Who is this person to you? Do you have legal documentation that verifies that? A parent, sister or nephew could have more rights under the law than a same-sex partner who has been together 20 years."

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Same-sex marriage: Faiths' views are wide-ranging Monday, 05/11/09
Stamford Advocate

In fact, the spectrum of positions on same-sex marriage within Christian and Jewish denominations in the state is much more nuanced and wide-ranging.

Some, such as the United Church of Christ, the Jewish Reform Movement and the Unitarian Universalist movement, have taken a stand in favor of gay marriage, leaving the decision up to individual pastors, rabbis and congregations.

Others, such as the Episcopal Church and The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, have struggled with the issue, and may be on the road to changing church doctrines on a national level.

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New Hampshire Gay Marriage Bill: Taxing Issue? Monday, 05/11/09
The New Civil Rights Movement

Were New Hampshire to offer marriage equality, and given its current tax structure, it would stem any movement of gays out of the state to nearby states that support gay marriage (currently Massachusetts, Connecticut, Vermont, and shortly, Maine) and would, in fact, encourage gay couples to move into the state for the very same reason. Were it to be the only state in the area to continue the ban on gay marriage, it could find its economy troubled.

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NY Assembly To Support Gay Marriage Monday, 05/11/09
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New York's Assembly is expected to pass a bill this week legalizing same-sex marriage, while Democrats in the Senate are working furiously to get enough votes to turn the proposal into law.

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ACLU chief: Same-sex marriage 'a sure thing' Monday, 05/11/09
Philadelphia Enquirer

Given the recent flurry of states saying "I do" to same-sex marriage, nationwide legalization is "a sure thing," says the executive director of the American Civil Liberties Union.

"Clearly, the momentum is on our side," says Anthony Romero, 43, the first openly gay person (and first Puerto Rican) to head the ACLU in its 89-year history. "It's just a matter of time."

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Barry, Obama & The Winding Road To Gay Marriage Monday, 05/11/09
Washington Post

Politicians such as Obama and Barry won't hesitate to go where the people are when the time is right, but on difficult and divisive issues, they're much happier to hold back until the people have spoken. Call it timidity, call it craven, but it's how things work.

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N.E.'s identity bolsters gay marriage tolerance Monday, 05/11/09
Boston Globe

The six states share a set of demographics that makes them fertile ground for an expanding view of marriage. Besides their large number of Democrats, they have higher education levels, a characteristic linked to approval of same-sex marriage. Maine, Vermont, and New Hampshire are also some of the whitest states in the country when polls show whites are less likely to oppose gay marriage.

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Religious freedom and gay marriage can coexist Monday, 05/11/09
LA Times

The basic idea here is straightforward: We can and should work hard to accommodate the rights of same-sex couples and religious individuals and institutions. Doing that right, however, requires government to take account of the actual and legitimate needs and interests of both groups. That's what treating people equally is all about.

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Gay marriage debate fades in Massachusetts Sunday, 05/10/09
Fort Wayne Journal Gazette

At the time of those first weddings, the debate was red-hot - protests were frequent, expectations ran high that legislators would allow a referendum on whether to overturn the court ruling ordering same-sex marriage. Now, although Roman Catholic leaders and some conservative activists remain vocally opposed, there is overwhelming political support for same-sex marriage and no prospect for a referendum.

According to the latest state figures, through September 2008, there had been 12,167 same-sex marriages in Massachusetts - 64 percent of them between women - out of 170,209 marriages in all. Some consequences have been tangible - a boom for gay-friendly wedding businesses, the exit of a Roman Catholic charity from the adoption business - and some almost defy description.

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NH: Same-sex marriage bill in limbo Sunday, 05/10/09
Nashua Telegraph

The Senate-crafted compromise (HB 436) only got to Secretary of State Bill Gardner late Friday afternoon, while the second bill (HB 310) that fixes mistakes made in the first wasn't there yet.

At a minimum, what must follow are signatures from the Senate president, House speaker and key members on the House and Senate Enrolled Bills committee.

Then and only then could it go to Lynch's office after which Lynch would have five days after that to decide whether to sign, veto or let it become law without his signature.

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New York Senators Hedge on Gay Marriage Sunday, 05/10/09
NY Times

With six weeks left before the Legislature adjourns for the year, uncertainty surrounds the fate of Gov. David A. Paterson's bill to legalize same-sex marriage, and lobbying is intensifying.

The measure is expected to easily pass the State Assembly, which approved a similar bill in 2007 and has scheduled its vote for Tuesday.

That means the fate of the legislation will most likely be decided in the closely divided 62-member State Senate.

There, proponents believe they have about two dozen of the 32 votes needed for approval, including those of 19 Democrats who have signed on as sponsors of the measure.

Four of the Senate's 32 Democrats have said they will vote against the legislation, and so far not a single Republican has publicly committed to supporting it.

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MD: Rethinking marriage Sunday, 05/10/09
Baltimore Sun

Maryland, where the law requires marriage to be between a man and a woman and where attempts to overturn that requirement have been bottled up in legislative committees, could yet join the national trend. But it will require Gov. Martin O'Malley to demonstrate more than the casual interest he has shown in legalizing civil unions, let alone gay marriage, in the past.

What Mr. O'Malley must do is this: Ask Attorney General Douglas F. Gansler for a legal opinion determining whether Maryland law permits the state to recognize same-sex marriages performed elsewhere. And if Mr. Gansler finds that it does, the governor should immediately sign an executive order directing state agencies to adjust their rules and regulations to do so.

New York Gov. David Paterson issued such an order last year. Whether Maryland's opposite-sex marriage law precludes doing so isn't clear.

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Pitts: Blacks must confront their homophobia Sunday, 05/10/09
Miami Herald

At day's end, though, the great tragedy here is neither historical amnesia nor moral cowardice. No, the tragedy is embodied in Barry's description of African Americans as a people for whom open homosexuality is rare. That description is, unfortunately, too accurate -- not simply for black Washington, but for black America. We are a socially conservative people.

And our conservatism is, quite literally, killing us.

It is no coincidence the community that has yet to make a safe place for its gay members to openly be who they are, the community that still regards gay as a dirty secret not to be spoken in open company, the community in which people still think gay ''can't happen in my family,'' is also the community that accounts for half of all AIDS diagnoses in this country, the community that has lost 211,000 brothers and sisters to this disease, the community where marriages keep popping like balloons from the discovery that the husband is gay on the ``down low.''

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Fresno key for same-sex marriage supporters Saturday, 05/09/09
Fresno Bee

Last November, the central San Joaquin Valley overwhelmingly approved Prop. 8, the statewide ballot initiative that eliminated the right of same-sex couples to marry.

Supporters of same-sex marriage plan to rally on the Saturday after the state Supreme Court rules on Prop. 8's legality. The high court has until June 3 to rule.

That ruling is widely expected to affirm the will of the voters. But supporters of same-sex marriage -- buoyed by decisions in Iowa, Maine and three other states to allow such marriages -- said they plan to put an initiative on the November 2010 ballot to legalize the practice in California.

And if they want to have any chance for a statewide ballot-box victory, supporters say, they must win hearts and minds in Fresno and other parts of inland California that approved Prop. 8 by wide margins.

The rally is being called "Meet In The Middle For Equality." Actress Charlize Theron is expected to attend, and organizers predict the rally could attract up to 3,000 people from throughout California.

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5 years later, gay marriage accepted in Mass. Saturday, 05/09/09
AP

At the time of those first weddings, the debate was red-hot -- protests were frequent, expectations ran high that legislators would allow a referendum on whether to overturn the court ruling ordering same-sex marriage. Now, although Roman Catholic leaders and some conservative activists remain vocally opposed, there is overwhelming political support for same-sex marriage and no prospect for a referendum.

According to the latest state figures, through September 2008, there had been 12,167 same-sex marriages in Massachusetts -- 64 percent of them between women -- out of 170,209 marriages in all. Some consequences have been tangible -- a boom for gay-friendly wedding businesses, the exit of a Roman Catholic charity from the adoption business -- and some almost defy description.

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Vote for Equality gets the message Saturday, 05/09/09
365Gay

Fleischer and Clemente's first session focused on contrasting the ads the GLBT community tends to use with the ads of anti-gay marriage activists. Ads for our team tend to be focused on fairness and rationality, because duh: If you really think it out, same-sex marriage bans make no sense.

Unfortunately, the other side bypasses the brain and goes straight for the gut and the adrenal glands. Our commercials sit the voter down for a nice chat over a cup of herbal tea. The other side grabs him by the lapels and starts screaming about how the gays are going legally force him to turn his church into a venue for naked gay circuit parties and there is NOTHING HE'LL BE ABLE TO DO ABOUT IT.

And with a lot of voters, that wins. You can't think rationally when you're panicking.

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SF Dems fan out in effort to repeal Prop 8 Friday, 05/08/09
Bay Area Reporter

Talking to opponents of same-sex marriage is thought to be especially critical. Even in San Francisco, one out of every four voters supported the measure. But for now the canvassers are sticking to neighborhoods where there's at least some support for same-sex marriage as they build their base, hoping to eventually help in a statewide effort to repeal Prop 8. In the Marina, for example, a breakdown of Yes on 8 votes provided by David Latterman, president of Fall Line Analytics, shows between 25 percent and 35 percent of district voters cast ballots for Prop 8.

Bornstein, who came up with the idea for the canvassing campaign, said activating the base and getting organized is the primary goal. The campaign is not designed to target swing voters specifically, "but having a physical presence out there does make a difference" with them, he said.

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Prop. 8 opponents' TV ads show same-sex couples Friday, 05/08/09
Sacramento Bee

Equality California organizers said Thursday they remain hopeful that Proposition 8 will be overturned. But they say they are moving ahead with grass-roots organizing to sway public opinion and prepare for another ballot battle as early as in 2010.

"We're committed to moving public opinion no matter what the court says," said Geoff Kors, California Equality executive director.

The group is raising money for the TV campaign, and hiring 25 full-time organizers to hold public events over the next 100 days, work closely with clergy to influence congregations and knock on 40,000 doors in parts of California where Proposition 8 did well.

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Effort to undo Proposition 8 goes to less friendly territory Friday, 05/08/09
Miami Herald

In choosing Fresno, supporters of same-sex marriage are moving far from the supportive urban environs of San Francisco and West Hollywood, and coming to hostile territory.

In November, the central San Joaquin Valley overwhelmingly approved Prop. 8, the statewide ballot initiative that eliminated the right of same-sex couples to marry.

Supporters of same-sex marriage plan to rally on the Saturday after the state Supreme Court rules on Prop. 8's legality. The high court has until June 3 to rule.

That ruling is widely expected to affirm the will of the voters. But supporters of same-sex marriage -- buoyed by decisions in Iowa, Maine and three other states to allow such marriages -- said they plan to put an initiative on the November 2010 ballot to legalize it in California

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For Gay Couples, Obstacles to Health Insurance Friday, 05/08/09
NY Times

Currently about one-third of companies with more than 500 employees offer domestic partner benefits. That's up from about 12 percent in 2000, according to a study from Mercer, an employee benefits consulting firm. But the percentage drops off sharply when smaller employers are counted, Ms. Hudson said.

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'This Is a Question of Fairness' Friday, 05/08/09
NY Times

Mr. Baldacci described his change of heart -- and what we hope is the changing sentiment of many other American politicians. "I have come to believe that this is a question of fairness and of equal protection under the law, and that a civil union is not equal to civil marriage," he said. Precisely.

Maine was the fifth state to legalize same-sex marriage. We urge Mr. Lynch to make New Hampshire the sixth. Similar proposals are pending in other states, with a major debate expected in the New York Legislature.

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New England gay marriage advocates hit roadblock in heavy Catholic Rhode Island Friday, 05/08/09
FOX8

Religion remains among the biggest hurdles. A recent survey by Trinity College in Connecticut showed 46 percent of Rhode Islanders identify themselves as Roman Catholic, a larger percentage than any other state.

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Gay Marriage Advocates Turning To Lost & Found Ads Thursday, 05/07/09
CBS13

Starting tomorrow, several new lost and found ads will be seen online and in local newspapers such as the Sacramento Bee, but these ads are not asking for help finding typical items or valuables.

A half-dozen ads, placed by those in favor of gay marriage, will be seen in the classifieds with messages like: Lost: my right to marry the person I love. Last seen November 4th, 2008. If seen, please return to law abiding, tax paying citizens. It is dearly missed.

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Equality California Joins Grassroots in Fight for Marriage Equality Thursday, 05/07/09
Pam's House Blend

EQCA working alongside grassroots is a remarkable change since the No on 8 campaign during which the grassroots felt shut out. The failure of the campaign woke a sleeping giant throughout the nation, but particularly in California, displayed prominently in the massive rallies and protests that followed.

Even more remarkable is that EQCA, along with Courage Campaign, Marriage Equality USA, FAIR, Equal Roots and more, have all chipped in together on the costs of polling, and with the resulting information, all groups will be armed to work together on the new initiative campaign if needed.

Since the November election, the grassroots has grown stronger and more organized, its full force to be seen on the Saturday following the Supreme Court's ruling on Prop 8. Win or lose, thousands will Meet in the Middle in Fresno, CA, the heart of Yes on 8 territory, not only to show numbers, but to stand in solidarity for equality for all.

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The Maine Marriage Law Thursday, 05/07/09
Leonard Link

According to Maine practice, the law goes into effect 90 days after the legislature adjourns. The legislature usually meets well into June, according to press reports, so that would put the effective date sometime in September. From the date the legislature adjourns, the opponents of same-sex marriage in Maine will have 90 days to gather sufficient signatures to put a repealer on the ballot. According to press reports, they need more than 55,000 signatures of registered voters in order to do that. Based on past referendum efforts, it seems likely that they can get the signatures if they spend the money and try hard enough. If they turn in the signatures early enough for the verification process to be completed on time, the measure would go on the general election ballot in November. If it takes longer, there would be a special election next spring.

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California voters likely to revisit gay marriage Thursday, 05/07/09
LA Times

As recently as a few months ago, some gay activists feared 2010 would be too soon. But the fact that same-sex marriage is now legal in five states, with New York, New Jersey and New Hampshire poised to follow, has changed the political climate, they say.

"There is no doubt we are witnessing an enormous and unprecedented sea change in both public opinion and momentum on the issue of marriage equality," said Kate Kendell, executive director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights. "I believe the electorate nationally and in California is in a different place when it comes to marriage equality than it was six months ago."

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As Gay Issues Arise, Obama Is Pressed to Engage Thursday, 05/07/09
NY Times

In the words of David Mixner, a writer, gay activists are beginning to wonder, "How much longer do we give him the benefit of the doubt?" Last weekend, Richard Socarides, who advised President Bill Clinton on gay issues, published an opinion piece in The Washington Post headlined, "Where's our fierce advocate?"

The White House, aware of the discontent, invited leaders of some prominent gay rights organizations to meet Monday with top officials, including Jim Messina, Mr. Obama's deputy chief of staff, to plot legislative strategy on the hate crimes bill as well as "don't ask, don't tell." Among those attending was Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign, who said afterward that while the gay rights agenda might not be "unfolding exactly as we thought," he was pleased.

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N.J. civil rights advocates: Marriage near Thursday, 05/07/09
NJ.com

The state already recognizes civil unions for same-sex couples after a Supreme Court decision in 2006 left it up to the Legislature. The decision to reverse that law -- or take it further -- is still in the hands of Legislature, where lawmakers have introduced a bill that would allow gay couples to marry (S2898), and a measure (SCR-30) that would ask voters to amend the constitution to define marriage as a union between a man and woman.

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Group Renews Fight for Same-Sex Marriage in California Thursday, 05/07/09
NY Times

Mr. Solomon, who came to California after several years of working on behalf of same-sex marriage in Massachusetts, the first state to legalize such unions, in 2004, stopped short of announcing of a formal campaign to put the issue on the California ballot, which would require an extensive signature-gathering effort.

But his group appeared to be ramping up. It announced a statewide advertising campaign starting Monday, which will feature gay and lesbian couples talking about marriage. The group also said it would open outreach offices in conservative parts of the state in coming weeks -- including Orange County, the Central Valley and the so-called Inland Empire, east of Los Angeles -- where voters overwhelmingly approved Proposition 8. (An outreach office is also planned for San Francisco, one of the state's most liberal enclaves.)

The group also expects to begin canvassing neighborhoods as soon as this weekend, using an on-the-ground approach to elicit voters' views about same-sex marriage and try to sway opponents, an approach that worked well for the opposite side in the November election. "You can call it taking a page from their playbook," Mr. Solomon said. "I'd prefer to call it taking a page from the playbook we used in the Northeast."

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Obama's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" On Marriage Thursday, 05/07/09
Box Turtle Bulletin

In the past several weeks, there has been a remarkable sea-change on marriage equality. Four (possibly five) states are being added to the marriage equality column. This was unimaginable just a few months ago in the wake of California's passage of Prop 8. But these remarkable development has been utterly invisible to the White House.

Obama promised bold leadership on these issues but we haven't seen it. How can he be bold when he's not even bothering to catch up?

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California Marriage Drive to Include Religious Protections Wednesday, 05/06/09
Box Turtle Bulletin

The Courage Campaign, currently the most vocal activists seeking to organize an overturn of Proposition 8 in either 2010 or 2012, say that things will be different this time around. The parties who spearheaded the opposition to Prop 8 will not be involved in the effort.

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Gay marriage hits close to home, but Minnesotans not ready Wednesday, 05/06/09
Minnesota Independent

While Minnesotans may say they're not ready to extend full equality to same-sex couples, subtle changes abound as gay Minnesotans travel to Iowa to marry and Lutherans look to relax restrictions on churches that want to be inclusive.

And while the religious right is working hard to convince Minnesotans that a proposed Constitutional amendment is needed, a new Star Tribune poll shows support for that option waning.

Young people showed the most support for same-sex marriage, with 38 percent backing it. Older Minnesotans resoundingly opposed gay nuptials with just 12 percent support. Overall, 25 percent of Minnesotans support same-sex marriage, 33 percent want it prohibited by amendment, and a plurality, 35 percent, say that the Minnesota Supreme Court should decide the issue, much like Iowa.

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Forthcoming Same-Sex Sacramental Marriage Litigation Wednesday, 05/06/09
Press Release

The Universal Life Church Monastery (TheMonastery.org) has announced a legal defense campaign that will take action in all states that have enacted unconstitutional same-sex sacramental marriage restraints. The Universal Life Church Monastery reports that "States that deny ministers the religious right to perform the sacrament of marriage, regardless of the couple's sexual orientation, do so in violation of the 1st Amendment of the US Constitution."

To investigate appropriate legal action supporting same-sex sacramental marriage, the Universal Life Church Monastery has retained two constitutional law firms, which include Arizona-based DeConcini McDonald Yetwin & Lacy, and Seattle-based Carney Badley Spellman.

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Genetic Marker Tied to Civil-Rights Support Wednesday, 05/06/09
Wall Street Journal

The best indicators of someone's opinion on the subject may be if they have openly gay friends or relatives and whether they think homosexuality is a choice or a genetic trait over which people have no control.

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NH: House passes same-sex marriage, 178-167; bill now moves to governor's desk Wednesday, 05/06/09
Union Leader

The New Hampshire House sent the gay marriage bill to Gov. John Lynch for signature, voting to agree with Senate changes to the bill.

House Bill 436, which extends the state's marriage laws to include couples of any sex, won House approval by a vote of 178-167. The bill's wording differs from the version the House passed in March, but its effect is basically the same.

"Any person ... may marry any other eligible person regardless of gender," the bill states.

Gov. Lynch now has the final say on gay marriage. He did not reveal his next move when speaking with reporters. He has said that he thinks the word marriage should be reserved for a union between a man and a woman.

Today, he said, "I have a responsibility as governor to do what I think is best for the people of New Hampshire. I will continue to talk with the Legislature and with the people of New Hampshire about that bill."

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Maine governor signs same-sex marriage bill Wednesday, 05/06/09
Bangor Daily News

The governor's signature makes Maine the fifth state to allow gay marriage.

In his statement, Baldacci also acknowledged that his signature may not be the last word on the issue. Opponents have vowed to begin the process of a "people's veto" to send the matter to referendum.

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Maine becomes fifth state to recognize same-sex marriage Wednesday, 05/06/09
Minnesota Independent

Maine Governor John E. Baldacci signed into law on Wednesday a bill that legalizes same-sex marriage in that state. Maine will become the fifth state to legalize same-sex marriage, along with Iowa, Massachusetts, Connecticut and Vermont. It's the second to do so through a legislative effort as opposed to the courts.

"In the past, I opposed gay marriage while supporting the idea of civil unions," Governor Baldacci said in a statement. "I have come to believe that this is a question of fairness and of equal protection under the law, and that a civil union is not equal to civil marriage."

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NY: Gay marriage battle becomes all-out war as gays press state officials Tuesday, 05/05/09

Over the past several months, the group commissioned polls from Boston-based Kiley & Co. in the districts of at least 10 GOP state senators.

The group plans to use the results to convince reluctant state lawmakers that voting "yes" on gay marriage is not political suicide.

The polling from four Long Island districts obtained by the Daily News shows voters support granting the right to marry to same-sex couples, 52-42%.


Study says New York Latinos support gay marriage Tuesday, 05/05/09
Times Union

Jose Cruz, director of NYLARNet, said the study found half of Latinos in those states supported gay marriage or civil unions despite only 18 percent identifying themselves as liberal.

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Uproar in D.C. as Same-Sex Marriage Gains Tuesday, 05/05/09
Washington Post

Mayor Adrian M. Fenty (D) has said he will sign the bill recognizing same-sex marriages performed elsewhere. The council's action puts the matter before Congress, which under the Home Rule Charter has 30 days to review District legislation. The bill could present the House and Senate with their biggest test on the same-sex marriage issue since Congress approved the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996.

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Gay marriage heat on Lynch Tuesday, 05/05/09
Seacoast Online

Colin Manning, Lynch's press secretary, acknowleged the governor's office has been "having a lot of contact from both sides" of this issue. Asked if the governor has made a decision one way or the other, Manning said he has not.

"He will be reviewing the legislation carefully," he said, and declined further comment.

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California Gay Marriage Backers Poised to Try Again in 2010 Tuesday, 05/05/09
ABC News

California voters approved Proposition 8 in November, a change to the state constitution banning same-sex marriage. Although a decision has not yet been rendered in the legal challenge to Proposition 8, many gay marriage proponents in California expect the state Supreme Court to uphold the voter-approved ban on new gay marriages while leaving intact the gay marriages performed in 2008 when a decision of the state's High Court had temporarily legalized the practice.

The inclination on the part of Newsom, who is running for governor next year, to push for gay marriage in 2010 is in step with the thinking of Rick Jacobs, the chairman of the Courage Campaign, a liberal grassroots organization that is at the center of deciding when gay marriage advocates will launch their next campaign.

"Do we wait? My gut tells me no," Jacobs told ABC News.

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Washington DC: More Fantastic Breaking News Tuesday, 05/05/09
Atticus Circle

Washington D.C. council has voted to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states!

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Maine House OKs gay marriage bill Tuesday, 05/05/09
Boston Globe

Representatives voted 89-57 Tuesday afternoon to give the bill final approval in favor of the bill after rejecting an amendment that called for a November referendum. The bill was sent back to the Senate, which is expected to take it up when it returns Wednesday.

The proposal would make Maine the fifth state to allow gay marriage. But it's unclear whether Gov. John Baldacci would sign the bill. Baldacci remains undecided.

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Overturning Prop. 8 at the Ballot? Tuesday, 05/05/09
Advocate

At a gay rights organizing camp held this weekend in Oakland, Calif., and hosted by the Courage Campaign, leading activists made it clear that they're in the beginning stages of a campaign to overturn Proposition 8 at the ballot.

In her closing speech at the camp on Sunday night, Torie Osborn, one of the founders of "Camp Courage," told the attendees, "We are who we've been waiting for. If not now, then when?" Rick Jacobs, founder and chair of the Courage Campaign, expanded on Osborn's message, saying on the Unite the Fight blog that his group is planning in advance of the California supreme court decision that will either uphold or overturn Prop. 8, the constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage in the state.

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Gay marriage debate on tap in Maine House Monday, 05/04/09
Boston Herald

The Maine House is preparing to take up a same-sex marriage bill, and its prospects are good given the number of co-sponsors and momentum from last week's Senate vote.

The bill, which won a 21-14 vote of approval in the Senate last week, goes to the House on Tuesday. The bill has more than 60 co-sponsors, most of them House members.

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Gay-marriage bills corner 2 governors Monday, 05/04/09
Washington Times

Two New England governors are facing a choice between their principles and their party as same-sex-marriage bills move nearer to landing on their desks.

New Hampshire Gov. John Lynch and Maine Gov. John Baldacci had staked out clear positions against gay marriage before this year's legislative sessions. Then bills to extend marriage to same-sex couples began moving faster than expected through the Maine and New Hampshire legislatures.

The bills' supporters and detractors have been divided largely along party lines, with Democratic legislators overwhelmingly in favor. The problem for Mr. Baldacci and Mr. Lynch is that they are Democrats, and New England Democrats who oppose gay marriage are increasingly rare.

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The Tipping Point Monday, 05/04/09
Andrew Sullivan

Hi Stop8.org readers,
This is Matt writing to you again. I just wanted to point you to this post of Andrew Sullivan's. He mentions an article in the San Francisco Appeal that I already posted about here on Stop8; but I'm posting about it again because I'm the person who wrote the article for the Appeal, and I'm just so delighted that Mr. Sullivan liked it enough to mention it. Yay!
And let me urge you: KEEP HAVING CONVERSATIONS. Each conversation is a little victory-machine. Tell everyone -- EVERYONE -- why the freedom to marry is so personally important to you.
Keep up all the hard work everybody!
Yours,
Matt

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Antigay Group Hiding Mormon Cash? Monday, 05/04/09
Advocate

The nonprofit National Organization for Marriage -- better known as the people behind the widely panned "Gathering Storm" commercials and as friends of "opposite marriage" supporter Miss California, Carrie Prejean -- is required by law to release its financial reports. According to the marriage-equality group Californians Against Hate, NOM is skirting that law, refusing to make its IRS 990 forms public.

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Recap of this weekend's #campcourage Monday, 05/04/09

Hi Stop8.org readers. I'm Matt, and I created this site. I don't often post my own writing -- mostly, I aggregate news from other sources. But I went to Camp Courage this weekend, and it was such a valuable experience that I wanted to share it with you.

Camp Courage is basically just a re-skinning of Camp Obama, with equality as the new campaign. It was pretty packed -- maybe 200 or so people -- and fairly busy, running from 9 to 5 both days. The time was split between speeches, applause, tips & tricks, strategy briefings, more applause, practice sessions, and also applause. Clap clap clap. I found some of it a little too woo-woo California-crunchy for my tastes -- the motto of the event was "Respect, Empower, Include" -- but I understand that most humans are not like me and they really need that stuff. So, they got plenty of it.

(Sidenote: I've lived in SF for 8 years, and that was the first time I've ever gotten off the BART before Berkeley. Did you know Oakland is a real city, with office buildings and bus stops and electricity? Who knew!)

It would be impossible to sum up everything that happened this weekend, but here are what I think were some of the most important points. Really, what it all comes down to is marketing. Of course they didn't call it that, but most of what we did was just honing a sales pitch.

Tell Good Stories About Why Marriage Equality Matters to You


There's tricks to telling good stories:

  1. Paint a vivid, specific scenario
  2. Express the emotions of the people in the story
  3. Describe a difficult choice that someone faced
  4. Explain the situation and emotion that resulted from that choice

There were a lot of great real-life examples -- running away from home, shame, parents' fears, returning to church. It was like This American Life.

It's important to know what your story is (they called it your "story of self," which sounds a little too poetic for me), and to be able to tell it in just a minute or two. You can persuade a lot of people by telling them a heartfelt story.

Persuade Through Agreement

  • One of the women leading the training was a former lawyer -- a really really good one. She had fantastic tips:
  • Talking AT people never works. Talk WITH them.
  • That means listening and asking questions. Your mouth should be closed at least 50% of the time.
  • Figure out what you want the outcome of the conversation to be -- you don't have to fully convince someone, often it's enough to just plant the seed of an idea.
  • Most importantly: help people discover what you are saying on their own. Don't try to force them with arguments: instead, shift their perspective. Show them a new way of looking at things.
  • You do that by listening. Find out who you're talking to, and what they want. Start by agreeing with them; and then gradually move from a point of common agreement so that they can see how you got from point a to point b.
  • Don't hit them with arguments -- on marriage equality, people aren't thinking, they're feeling. Know your evidence and arguments backwards and forwards; but only pull them out after you've spent time listening, acknowledging, finding common ground, and exchanging feelings.
  • I hate all this stuff. Emotions! Pah! But it's really interesting how well humans respond to it. They are curious mammals.

Why Do People Vote Against Us?


Potential allies tend to cite these three reasons for opposing gay couples:
  • Faith
  • Tradition
  • Children
Remember, they're not thinking, they're feeling. So it doesn't work to just say, "there is no threat to faith," or "marriage has been changed many times," or "this doesn't effect schools." At best, people will say, "oh, I suppose you're right," but their tone of voice will say, "I know you're right, but I think I'm right too; and I believe me instead of you."

Fortunately, we got some very good training in how to have productive conversations on all three topics. A key point: telling your own personal story. But there's more to it than that, a whole process of acknowledging the values of your potential ally and finding common ground and asking questions.

I'm not sure if we're supposed to be talking about that training, or if they want to keep it under wraps. In my opinion, keeping it secret is the worst thing they could do; but maybe there's some reason they don't want it to fall into enemy hands. I'll post more about it if I get permission to do so.

So, there you have it: tell good stories; perusade through agreement; anticipate certain arguments and know how to discuss them. It was a very good weekend.

My next step, I think, is going to be to spread this information. We learned so much valuable stuff, but there were only a few hundred of us. Some of it was difficult, and could only be learned in an immersion experience like Camp Courage. But other stuff -- like practicing your own personal story -- is something that everyone can do. And everyone should have access to the tips that we had at the camp. So, over the next few weeks, I'll work on ways to help people learn the things that I learned.


When Same-Sex Marriage Was a Christian Rite Monday, 05/04/09
Colfax Record

Contrary to myth, Christianity's concept of marriage has not been set in stone since the days of Christ, but has constantly evolved as a concept and ritual.

Prof. John Boswell, the late Chairman of Yale University's history department, discovered that in addition to heterosexual marriage ceremonies in ancient Christian church liturgical documents, there were also ceremonies called the "Office of Same-Sex Union" (10th and 11th century), and the "Order for Uniting Two Men" (11th and 12th century).

These church rites had all the symbols of a heterosexual marriage: the whole community gathered in a church, a blessing of the couple before the altar was conducted with their right hands joined, holy vows were exchanged, a priest officiatied in the taking of the Eucharist and a wedding feast for the guests was celebrated afterwards. These elements all appear in contemporary illustrations of the holy union of the Byzantine Warrior-Emperor, Basil the First (867-886 CE) and his companion John.

Such same gender Christian sanctified unions also took place in Ireland in the late 12thand/ early 13th century, as the chronicler Gerald of Wales ('Geraldus Cambrensis') recorded.

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Gay Marriage Gets Another Assembly Republican Monday, 05/04/09
New York Daily News

The Log Cabin Republicans of New York, the state's GOP gay rights group, announced today a member of the the Assembly minority - Fred Thiele - has decided to cosponsor the same-sex marriage bill.

This brings to the number of GOP Assembly members willing to vote "yes" on the bill up to five. In 2007, four Republicans - Mike Spano (who has since become a Democrat), Joel Miller, Teresa Sayward and Dede Scozzafava - joined 81 Democrats to pass the same-sex marriage bill in that house for the first time in New York history.

(NOTE: Republican Assemblywoman Janet Duprey did not vote "yes" in 2007, but has since changed her position on the issue and is now in favor of marriage).

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New Wal-Mart CEO Backed Gay Adoption Ban Monday, 05/04/09
Change.org

Among those who signed a petition to place a gay adoption and foster parenting ban on the Arkansas ballot last November was Mike Duke, Wal-Mart's new top man. Although the initiative makes it illegal for all unmarried, cohabiting couples - straight or gay - to adopt children, opponents argue that the real targets behind it were same-sex couples.

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Same-sex marriages gradually gain legal ground Monday, 05/04/09
LA Times


The recent moves in New England and the heartland to legalize gay marriage appeared to reinvigorate campaigns for passage of same-sex marriage bills in Maine, Maryland and Hawaii. Rights advocates predict the tide will eventually sweep even into some of the 30-plus states that have passed laws or constitutional amendments defining marriage as between a man and a woman.

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Oprah talks marriage equality Monday, 05/04/09
Oprah

Oprah Winfrey and panel, including actor Hugh Jackman, Oprah's openly gay decorator-in-chief Nate Barkus, and a lesbian couple who were married in Iowa, supportively discuss marriage equality.

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Iowa Guard will still oust married gays Monday, 05/04/09
DesMoins Register

Gay and lesbian military service members who are legally married in Iowa can still be involuntarily discharged from the Iowa National Guard and other military branches under a federal law that prevents homosexuals from openly serving in the armed forces, military officials say.

The federal law, approved by Congress in 1993, takes precedence over the Iowa Supreme Court ruling in April that legalized same-sex marriage, according to legal experts. The ruling struck down Iowa's Defense of Marriage Act, which had limited marriage to a man and a woman.

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Gay-Rights Groups Employ Faith to Push Bills Monday, 05/04/09
Washington Post

Today, more than 300 clergy from a variety of faith and denominations will fan out over Capitol Hill to preach a unified gay-rights message to members of Congress: Pass the hate crimes bill that would give sexual orientation and gender identity the same federal protection as race, and pass the employment non-discrimination bill that would protect gays.

Clergy Call is the second clergy event organized by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation, a gay-rights organization that has been pushing for the legislation for years and has an ambitious legislative agenda for this Congressional session.

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Today's First Gay Marriage Post Monday, 05/04/09
The Stranger

One of the chief reasons why more and more Americans support the rights of same-sex couples? More Americans know gay and lesbian people.

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As they Stand on the Tipping-Point, Gay Couples' Advocacy Having Ever-Growing Impact Sunday, 05/03/09
San Francisco Appeal

The more people talk about gay couples, the more comfortable they are with them. And it doesn't even seem to matter what people say -- lord knows, there've been plenty of anti-gay conversations lately -- every conversation keeps nudging public opinion towards equality. So the anti-gay-couple groups like the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) are standing in quicksand: the more they keep struggling, the faster they sink. Next month, the California Supreme Court will rule on Prop 8 -- and no matter the outcome, it'll nudge public opinion yet again.

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Utah prime location for gay-rights movement Sunday, 05/03/09
Salt Lake Tribune

At the urging of their church leaders, Latter-day Saints were vigorous proponents of Proposition 8, the California campaign to outlaw gay marriage. Members in California and Utah gave about $16 million and the church itself, nearly $300,000. A backlash of protests, which were directed in part at Utah, seemed to baffle the church.

And while Republican Gov. Jon Huntsman, who is Mormon, this year endorsed civil unions and related rights, his position was very nearly drowned out by the inflammatory remarks of a state legislator.

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Gays say Maine marriage law can be 'unbearable' Sunday, 05/03/09
AP

Since 2004, Maine has had a domestic partner registry, which is supposed to grant some legal rights similar to those enjoyed by married couples. But it's largely useless when it comes to wills, workers' compensation, guardianship and retirement benefits, Wriggins said.

This week, the state House of Representatives is expected to take up a same-sex marriage bill that was endorsed by the state Senate. Democratic Gov. John Baldacci is undecided on the bill.

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Goodbye Wedge Issue in 2010? Sunday, 05/03/09
Change.org

As public acceptance of gay marriage has changed so drastically in our favor, Republicans who have used gay marriage as a tool for fear-mongering to get conservative voters to the polls and marginalize more centrist party members may not have that plank to rely on anymore.

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Gay couples' marriages and the "bandwagon effect" Saturday, 05/02/09
Volokh

One major problem with the bandwagon, however, is that it will inevitably hit the stone wall of 30 or more state constitutional amendments. Unless the Supreme Court intervenes, overcoming those amendments will require not just majorities, but super-majorities of popular opinion. Many will have to be voted on by the people at the ballot box, where so far the bandwagon has been in a rut.

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Questions for James McGreevey Saturday, 05/02/09
NY Times

I think in the Northeast we've reached the tipping point. I think Proposition 8 sort of reawoke a sense of political consciousness among the L.G.B.T. community and, as important, its allies.

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Dems sense opportunity on gay marriage Friday, 05/01/09
SF Gate

What's certain is that opposition to gay marriage for decades has been a potent tool for the GOP in rallying social conservatives. They are critical to the party's grass-roots organizing and small-dollar fundraising.

But as more states accept gay and lesbian unions, there is a debate inside the party over how it should position itself on the issue. The dispute is just one part of a broader struggle within the out-of-power GOP over its identity and whether it should focus on rallying conservatives or attracting supporters from across the political spectrum.

Some prominent Republicans are backing away from cut-and-dried opposition, and some party operatives say it's only a matter of time before others follow suit because the country is changing.

Republican Gov. Jon Huntsman of Utah, a Mormon who is a potential presidential candidate, backed a 2004 constitutional amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman. But he says he favors civil unions and extending some legal rights to gay couples.

Last month, John McCain's chief campaign strategist, Steve Schmidt, told the Log Cabin Republicans: "Even though a majority of Republicans remain opposed to it, we must respect dissent on the subject within the party and encourage debate over it, and should not reject out of hand and on specious grounds ... that the party might be in the wrong on the question."

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Republicans could play decisive role in New York marriage bill Saturday, 05/02/09
Edge

"Over 30 Republican legislators have stood up for marriage equality in Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York and Vermont and none of those people who voted for marriage lost re-election in their respective cycle," he said. "The idea that a Republican who is for gay marriage has put themselves on the hot seat is a bit overblown."

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Justice David Souter retirement from Supreme Court unlikely to shift balance of court on LGBT legal issues Friday, 05/01/09
Leonard Link

It seems unlikely that President Barack Obama would nominate a new justice to the Souter/Brennan seat whose views on LGBT issues - equal protection, due process/privacy, freedom of speech and association - would differ significantly from those of Justice Souter. The LGBT issues most likely to come before the Court over the next few years would include the military "don't ask, don't tell" policy if it is not voluntarily altered by the political branches, the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act, also if it is not voluntarily repealed by the political branches, and the routine unequal treatment of LGBT partners by federal agencies.

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Despite new law, no church 'I do' for Swedish gays Friday, 05/01/09
AFP

Sweden's parliament in April approved by a wide majority a new marriage law that puts gays on an equal footing with heterosexuals.

But the Lutheran Church, which was the state church until 2000, has said that while it supports the new law, its synod will only formally decide in October whether to perform same-sex marriage ceremonies.

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